You know when there's a problem when you and your spouse don't tend to treat each other the way you all did before you got married. It seems you all have went different ways & dont include the other one.
I know what it's like to have problems in a marriage. We have blamed our marriage for many reasons. The number one reason most couples don't get along is because they dont make time for each other.
Most husbands don't realize that their wife feels like there is a problem. As of wife we imagine our marriage to be like a story book tale. It can be though! Also, as a wife we don't realize how our husband defines love. Each man shows their affection in different ways. When they are showing they love us we probably dont even notice, or we notice they are showing they love us and care, but we imagine it differently. We want what we imagine most of the time, or what we expect.
When there's a problem in a marriage the husband nor the wife will admit to it and confront the other spouse until it's too late. When you first detect a problem thats when you need to sit your spouse down and talk. Tell each other what you would like to gain in the marriage & how you would like to be treated. Dont come off as the needy one. Once you admit there's a problem and you confront your spouse you will feel so much better.
